OT:Did I take too long to pay?

[kikilives]

Oh my gosh. Today I received neutral feedback that said I "took my sweet time to pay". I checked my paypal records and I paid within 48 hours of the auction ending so I e-mailed the seller asking if he was mistaken in his feedback. The day after my offer was accepted I got an e-mail asking me to pay. I wrote back I would be paying in the next 24 hours and if they needed it sooner to let me know. They said that that was fine. This is the e-mail I just recieved back.

"I accepted your offer for the items, I emailed you asking you to pay 24 hrs later so I can ship and you tell me you will pay on another 24 hours? You gave an offer I accepted soon after, you should have paid right away. I hate buyers like you who wait til whenever they want to pay! NOW STOP BOTHERING ME I HAVE TO PAINT MY NAILS!"

I actually paid the day after I saw my offer was accepted. I know it's no big deal but it really feels like I've been punched in the stomach when stuff like this happens. I was totally caught of guard. I remember after I paid the seller sent me an e-mail saying you should have paid sooner I won't be shipping for another week. I e-mailed him back no big deal but I remember thinking why didn't they mention when they were shipping when they sent the payment request. Whatever, sorry to vent again. Just need some confirmation I'm not a bad buyer. Thanks

[aggirl479]

I think the seller is being rude and ridiculous. They said it was fine when you asked if you could pay then. If they had a problem, they should have told you in the first place. I thought their email was incredibly rude. I would at least repond to the feedback they gave you defending yourself. You are not a bad buyer [img]smile.gif[/img] , they are just a bad seller.

[Felicity_Fan85]

That's awful what they wrote. I sent out a payment for an item on Monday and it should've gotten to it's destination, but I don't know if it has so I think I'll email the seller asking if she got the payment.

[dolllover]

I think the seller was very rude in her reply! She should be flattered that someone would want to buy her item! [img]mad.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/thumbs_down.gif[/img]

[cami713]

I hope her nails look good? That was such a random, random thing to say.

Did you already leave her feedback? If not, I'd take the one she gave you into consideration for hers.

Definitely doesn't seem like it's your fault [img]smile.gif[/img] .

[American_Mommy]

How very, very RUDE. I am so sorry you were treated that way.

If this was an AG tranaction, would you please PM me with the sellers name so I can avoid buying anything from this seller at all costs? Thank you.

[sailorangel59]

I would check the feedback she has left for previous buyers. Sometimes they show patterns.

[FelinaDoon]

That was VERY Rude - Did you already leave her Feedback? I would respond accordingly

[jlogemann17]

Wow, when I first read the topic line, I was thinking you were going to say something like, I was on vacation and didn't pay for 2 weeks, not 2 DAYS! I think the seller is being unreasonable. I would leave a response to their feedback on you, matter of factly stating, payment was made by paypal within 48 hours. Don't say anything nasty about the seller- I think a simple explanation would make people who are looking at your feedback comfortable to deal with you. If you haven't left feedback for her yet, I would leave neutral, stating, nice product, rude service, or something like that. Just don't get "nasty"- a nasty comment, even on a nasty seller always reflects poorly on the buyer I think- you can say what you need to say without being nasty. Sorry this happened to you. I would have had the same response you did.

Jo

[dolllover]

If it was an AG auction, can you PM me the user id so I can try to avoid her? Thanks!